Dating Advice

>If you’d like to master the art of meeting women
online, and using the internet dating, chat, and
email to save time and get more dates, then you
need to take a minute and read THIS:

Meeting Women Online

I’m going to do something in this newsletter
that I almost NEVER do…

I’m going to share with you part of a real-life
conversation that I had with a woman online in
the past. Again, this is something that I VERY
rarely do… (so feel special and loved).

It’s a small part of a bigger conversation, so
keep that in mind as you read it.

This little chunk of conversation is a great
example of how to tease, be Cocky & Funny, and
generally give a woman a hard time… and it shows
how this particular girl was responding.

Read it, and then I’ll comment on it…

HER: you remind me of the boy on the playground
who pulls the girls pigtails

ME: The one you always liked?

HER: i dont like too many boys

ME: Yea, but you liked that one

HER: and especially mean ones

ME: And you LOVE me

HER: nah they never pulled my pigtails

HER: i scare boys

ME: That’s because you always dressed like a boy

ME: And they mistook you for one

HER: nah its because im smarter than them

ME: Hm

ME: Maybe that’s why I’m so intimidated by you

ME: And scared to pull your pigtails

HER: oh yeah you’re intimidated alright

HER: NOT

HER: the only reason im talking to you is
because youre not afraid of me

ME: Oh, but I am

HER: the ones that live in fear of me bore me

ME: I’m scared

HER: you suck at lying

ME: Shaking, really

HER: oh geez

HER: dont every go into acting

ME: Don’t every go into spelling

NOTE: This is the EXACT text from the ACTUAL
conversation. No modifications were made at all
to the text. Only the names have been modified to
hide identities.

OK, so who was this girl?

She was an actress and model, and a high-achiever
as well. She was beautiful, intelligent, and SHARP
AS A TACK.

In other words, I wasn’t dealing with an average
girl here. I was talking to a woman who was IN DEMAND,
AND SHE KNEW IT. (Most women know at some level that
they’re in demand, by the way. This one just happened
to be particularly sassy.)

How would an average guy who was online chatting
with random people have handled this? Probably like
so:

HER: you remind me of the boy on the playground
who pulls the girls pigtails

AVERAGE GUY: Why’s that?

HER: i dont like too many boys

AVERAGE GUY: Why not? What kind of guy do you
like?

HER: and especially mean ones

AVERAGE GUY: I’m not a mean guy

HER: boys never pulled my pigtails

HER: i scare boys

AVERAGE GUY: Wow, you must be beautiful

HER: nah its because im smarter than them

AVERAGE GUY: I love smart women. …blah blah blah.

SEE THE DIFFERENCE?

Let’s talk about a few of the things that
happened in the original conversation.

It started out with her telling me that I remind
her of the boy on the playground that pulls the
girls pigtails.

Now, what does THAT mean?

IT MEANS SHE’S GETTING A LITTLE ANNOYED…
BUT AT THE SAME TIME HAVING FUN.

It means that she’s PLAYING with me.

Of course, in the conversation that took place
before this segment, I was teasing her, busting on
her, telling her that her modeling pictures were
ugly and dorky, and everything else.

When she told me that I reminded her of the boy
who pulls girls’ pigtails, I said “YES!” to myself,
because I knew she was REALLY enjoying it.

My answer, “The one you always liked” took her
somewhat ball-busting comment and turned it around
on her. Then, when she tried to deny it by saying
“I don’t like too many boys” I just pressed on with
“Yea, but you liked that one”. Then she said “and
especially mean ones” and I said “And you LOVE me”.

Bingo!

She was at a dead end here, and she knew it.
I had her number, and she couldn’t deny it. So she
took a slightly different direction with “I scare
boys”.

Now, most guys would have been stumped with a
comment like this. Her comments weren’t having any
effect on me, so she tried to puff her chest a bit
and say “I scare boys”.

I came right back with “That’s because you always
dressed like a boy… and they mistook you for one”.

HA!

I love it when I crack myself up.

Of course, she kept trying to sound superior,
and said “Nah, it’s because I’m smarter than them”.

OK, now notice what I did after that comment…

I said “Hmm… Maybe that’s why I’m so intimidated
by you… and scared to pull your pigtails”.

What am I doing here?

I’m being SO cocky and sarcastic that I’m actually
making fun of the fact that she’s ANYTHING but
intimidating to me. The fact is that I’ve been
“verbally” pulling her pigtails the whole time, and
she knows it!

So she answers “Yea, you’re intimidated alright…
NOT”.

Now, I want to point out a KEY phrase that this
girl said to me. She said:

“…the only reason im talking to you is because
youre not afraid of me…”

Whoa.

Isn’t THAT interesting?

What do you think that might mean?

Could it mean that she IMMEDIATELY dismisses men
who ARE intimidated by her?

Could it mean that this is one of the FIRST things
she wants to know when she starts talking to a man?

Could it mean that she has all kinds of TESTS that
she uses early on… tests that most men NEVER EVEN
REALIZE ARE TESTS… that she uses to determine
whether or not a guy is intimidated by her?

Could it mean that this is happening all the time
to guys all over the world, and they don’t even know
it?

Could it mean that most guys will try to act nice
and accommodating… and kiss ass… and act like they
want a woman to approve of them… only to have it
backfire and drive the woman away?

Could it mean that she’s showing me HER “hand” and
subtly telling me that I’m winning her over?

I realize that I’m taking this to an extreme here,
but guess what?

THE ANSWERS ARE:

YES, YES, YES, YES, YES, AND YES!

If I would have responded to her like a dumb-ass
Wussy (as in the fake example above) she would have
hit the road faster than Steve McQueen!

And at the end, I continued to play the sarcasm
and act afraid of her… until the very end, where
one of my personal FAVORITES happened: She misspelled
a word!

She said “don’t every go into acting” (she meant
“don’t EVER go into acting”).

I shot back “Don’t every go into spelling”.

A beautiful moment… perfect.

So there you have it.

An example of me being Cocky & Funny with a real
girl, in a real conversation… unedited.

What’s the lesson?

Well, it’s a few things:

1) Don’t act like a Wussy when you’re around women
and ESPECIALLY when you’re around extremely
attractive, high profile women. They hate it,
and they run. By the way, if you need a serious
“Wuss-Ectomy”, and you want to evict your Inner
Wussy for good, then go and read THIS:

Deep Inner Game

2) You must demonstrate a few key beliefs and
abilities to women when you first start talking to
them. One of those is that you don’t fear women
(her), and another is that you can be comfortable
around them (her).

3) There is a MORE SUBTLE game being played out when
you first start interacting with a woman. She’s going
to make literally DOZENS of decisions about you based
on NOTHING other than the way you COMMUNICATE and
appear to her.

If you screw it up, it’s over.

Attraction isn’t a CHOICE. And if she doesn’t
feel it for you after she makes her initial
impression of you, then you’re probably not going to
get another chance. And her ATTRACTION is going to
be based on all kinds of things that are NOT AT ALL
obvious to most men.

But there IS a way for you to learn all of these
different subtle components, and how to use your
communication (not money, food, and gifts) to quickly
trigger ATTRACTION in the women you meet.

What is that way?

It’s called my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD
program.

Here, read an email that I got from a guy
in Australia who watched the DVD Video version:

“Dear David,

Wow. I have just finished watching your DVD series
and feel compelled to write to you.

Day 1 - Thank you for finally putting it all
together for me. I’ve had a few epiphanies in my
life and I can now chalk up one more. It is funny,
because my first revelation was when I read Richard
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I realised the water had in fact become freezing cold
around Chapter 5! When you started putting those
pieces together with why attraction isn’t a choice,
a thick veil was lifted from my eyes. I CAN SEE. Thank
you

Day 2 - I’m no slouch interacting with women, I ran
a nightclub for 10 years, but I DIDN’T GET IT. Now,
thanks to your insightful hard work, I know how to
handle everything. I’ve just come back from kayaking
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and when I met women in the settlements on the way I
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Guys listen to me, you will be doing yourself more
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Regards

C.M.

Brit living in Melbourne Australia.”

That is an unsolicited email… and it’s
one of many, many emails just like it that I get all
the time. I think it says enough.

I’ve put YEARS into figuring all this stuff out,
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I’ll talk to you again in a couple of days.

Your Friend,

David D.

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Here’s an interesting story…

A few hours ago I was standing in a “posh” bar
in San Francisco.

I was standing near to the bar, looking around
at the people, when the guy next to me starts
talking to a girl that he doesn’t know.

She turned and looked at him with a look that
said “I don’t know you, I don’t want to talk to
you, and you have no chance with me”.

The look on her face couldn’t have been more
clear. As soon as he started talking to her, she
put up her defenses.

The more he tried to talk to her, the more
annoyed she got.

It was painful to watch.

Then things got REALLY interesting.

The guy turned to me and started making
conversation with me.

He asked me how I was “doing” with the ladies
at the bar.

I told him that I had just arrived, and I
wasn’t particularly in the mood to talk to women
at the moment… I was just enjoying my drink and
relaxing.

He then started to talk about how “meeting
women was a numbers game” and how he had been
“laying rap” on women all night… but he didn’t
have any “luck” so far.

We started discussing our different approaches
to meeting women.

I told him that when I decide to talk to a
woman that I really find attractive, I am
confident that I’ll be successful with her.

He kind of laughed and told me that meeting
women was a game of luck, and if you wanted to
win, you had to just keep playing the numbers…
and hope you find one that likes you.

Right at that moment, two cute women walked up
to the bar. One of them was very hot. He
looked at the hotter girl, pointed to her, and
said “I like that”.

I said “Well then go talk to her”.

He decided to go “order a drink” (in other
words, he was going to go up to the bar and FAKE
like he was there to order a drink, and then
“accidentally” start a conversation with her).

Of course, he already HAD a drink, so he
fumbled around trying to find a place to put it
down so he could walk up to the bar with no drink
and not look like he was “on the make”.

It was pretty damn funny.

Anyway, he squeezes in next to this girl, and
tries to act like he’s just there to get a drink.
He then turns to her, and tries to start a
conversation.

What happened? Of course…

Her defenses went up INSTANTLY.

She said a few words to him, but then turned
away from him, took her drink and her friend, and
walked away from the bar.

He came back over to me and made no comment
about the interaction with her…

I watched him try to talk to more women after
that… all with the same result.

Their defenses went up AS SOON as he started
talking to them.

This guy’s theory of “talking to a lot of women
until you get lucky and find one who likes you”
was working pretty well…

Except for the fact that he WASN’T getting
“lucky” at all, and NO women liked him….

One of the problems he had was not
understanding this thing that I call “Sexual
Communication”. If you’d like to learn more about
this particular topic, then take a minute and
look at THIS:

Sexual Communication

HITTING THE WALL

Have you ever been in a situation talking to a
girl, and you could just FEEL that she had her
“defenses up”?

Or have you ever been out on a date with a
woman, and had a bad feeling in your GUT about the
situation… and no matter what you did, the
situation only got worse, and she seemed to get
further away from you?

If you’re like me, then you’ve been in a LOT of
these situations.

In fact, I think it’s happened to me so many
times that I have “female defense radar”. It’s
like I can tell INSTANTLY if a woman has her
defenses up… and it doesn’t feel GOOD.

You’ve been there… one minute everything is
OK, and the next minute she has flipped on some
kind of force-field that is PERMANENT.

You know what I’m talking about…

And once the defenses are up, it’s as if she
has become a DIFFERENT person. And trying to make
it better, only makes it worse.

Always.

That’s called HITTING THE WALL.

And once you hit it, there’s no bouncing back.

A WOMAN’S DEFENSES, AND HOW THEY WORK

So what’s up with that?

Why do women have this “defense mechanism”?

What triggers it?

And how can we, as guys, get past it?

Well, the reality is that a woman’s defense
mechanism is something that PROTECTS her. It saves
her time. And it saves her headaches and hassles.

You’ve heard me say that attractive women are
approached ALL THE TIME by men. In one way or
another, an attractive woman is CONSTANTLY
approached and pursued by men.

Women can’t afford to spend even a FRACTION of
their time with every guy who shows interest, so
they use “time management” techniques.

How 21st century of them.

One of these “time management techniques” is
their defense mechanism.

If a girl decides that she isn’t interested in
being with a particular guy… and it doesn’t
matter if it’s within the first five seconds or
the first five months… the mechanism kicks in.

It creates an invisible wall that protects her.
You can feel it. She can feel it. And even though
neither of you can see it, you both know that it’s
more powerful than a real wall… because most men
don’t know how to get PAST it.

I know that you’ve thought about this issue at
some point. If you’re like me, you’ve thought
about it a LOT. Maybe even obsessively. Maybe you
have even schemed and tortured yourself trying to
figure out the magic way to get past a woman’s
defenses…

Are you with me here?

A NEW WAY OF LOOKING AT THINGS…

What if I were to tell you that YOU are the one
who actually controls her defense mechanism?

And what if I were to tell you that all this
time, YOU’RE THE ONE who’s been causing women to
put up their defenses, and shut you out?

And what if I told you that looking for the
magic way to “get past her defenses” was really a
waste of time?

What if I told you instead that the ULTIMATE
way to “get past” her defenses was to NEVER CAUSE
HER TO PUT THEM UP in the first place.

See, the reality is that her defenses are a
RESPONSE or a REACTION to something YOU are doing.
YOU are the one who’s doing things that kick off
the sequence of events.

In fact, if you think of it from this
particular perspective, you’ll realize that you
REALLY ARE controlling her defense mechanisms.

BACK TO MY STORY…

Shortly after his “bad luck” episodes, the guy
I was talking to in the bar walked away from me.

I stood at the bar thinking of what he had just
said and done… and how so many guys I’ve met
think the same way.

Right then, a woman asked me if I’d move over a
little bit so she could order a drink.

I said “sure”, and turned sideways so she could
squeeze in next to me.

At first, I turned my back to her.

After a minute or two, I turned back around,
and started talking to her and her friends.

I was teasing them and making fun, and
generally being a pain in the ass.

There were a total of four girls there
together, and I was talking to three of them.

I turned my attention to the quietest of the
three, and started teasing her.

I asked her why she was so quiet, teasing her
about it, etc.

Every time I asked her a question or said
something, she either shook her head “no” or
nodded her head “yes”.

No words.

Finally, she held up her left hand and proudly
displayed her wedding ring.

She said “I’m married”.

I laughed at her and said “Wow, good for you. I
guess if I was trying to pick up on you I’d be
pretty upset right now… but I’m not, so you
don’t have anything to worry about”.

Now, the REALITY of the situation was that I
was NOT trying to “pick up on her”.

She was the least attractive woman in the
group, and her personality was about as
interesting as a mule’s.

Her friends heard me say this to her, and they
turned and looked at me with wide eyes.

They couldn’t believe that I had just said that
to their friend, and they could tell that I was
being VERY serious, and that I could care less
what she thought of me.

I went on talking to these four girls for the
rest of the night… about another hour or so.

I mixed up the conversation.

Sometimes I talked to one of them… sometimes
two… sometimes three… sometimes all four.

I teased them all, busted on them, called them
all kinds of freaky-chick names, and generally
acted like they were my four, bratty little sisters
that annoyed me… but who I still loved (a
little).

By the end of the evening, I was sitting on a
little couch with three of the girls.

At this point, there were almost NO women left
at this bar. I’d say the guy/girl ratio was about
6 or 7 to 1.

I could see about 30 guys standing around me,
and maybe 5 or 6 women. And I had 3 of those 5 or
6 on the couch next to me.

At one point, two of them were on either side
of me MASSAGING me at the same time. It was funny.

Of course RIGHT AT THAT MOMENT the guy from
earlier walked by, stopped, and looked at me. The
look of shock in his eyes was priceless. He didn’t
even say hi… he just walked away.

The evening ended with two of the girls kissing
me, and one of them getting my number because she
was going to be in my area in a few weeks and
wanted to see me…

Let’s get down to the point…

The reason why I was so successful with these
particular women was because I didn’t do what
every other guy that they ran into did…

I didn’t trigger their DEFENSE MECHANISMS.

They had time to get to know me… they had
time to get comfortable with me… and I had
time to spark all kinds of sexual tension and
attraction with them.

Now let me tell you how I did it…

WHAT TRIGGERS A WOMAN’S DEFENSE MECHANISM… AND
HOW TO AVOID IT

I’m about to give you a VERY important insight
into how women interact with men.

Pay close attention to this. It’s taken me a
LONG time to figure this out…

Women are VERY perceptive.

They know what a guy is thinking by looking at
his body language, and listening to his voice
tone.

Some experts estimate that women are as much as
TEN TIMES better than men at reading body
language.

To most women, men are an OPEN BOOK.

Guys have no idea just how obvious they are…

And there’s one particular thing that triggers
a woman’s defense mechanism faster than a chubby
kid eats cake…

It’s SEEKING APPROVAL.

In every situation with a woman, you can say
WHATEVER you want to say in a way that either:

1) Seeks her approval

2) Doesn’t seek her approval

Think about it.

You’re either SEEKING APPROVAL… or you’re
NOT…

And most guys ARE when they’re talking to a
woman that they’re interested in.

As I watched the guy in the bar walk up to
women and try to start conversations all night,
the ONE thing that was obvious to all that had the
eyes to see, was that he wanted APPROVAL.

He wanted the women to LIKE him.

I guarantee you that this man was an honest-
to-goodness certifiable WUSSY… and every woman
that he tried to talk to could SMELL it on him.

On the other hand, when I talk to a woman, I
avoid seeking approval.

I make it clear, no matter what I’m saying or
doing, that it doesn’t matter whether or not she
likes me… I could care less.

The more I made it clear to the women I was
talking to, that I DIDN’T need their approval, the
more they LIKED ME.

If you want to get past a woman’s defenses, the
best plan of action is to NOT TRIGGER them IN THE
FIRST PLACE.

Now, the reality of this situation is that some
women are walking around with their defenses
already up. Maybe they’re married, or maybe
they’re angry at men… or maybe they’re just very
shy.

We live in the real world, and this is part of
it.

But in most situations YOU are the one who
triggers the defenses. It’s YOU.

I have several friends who I’ve watched
interacting with women MANY, MANY times… and
these particular guys RARELY, if EVER get the
“defensive” cold shoulder from women.

Why?

Because they’re not seeking approval. They’re
just doing what they want, and being themselves.

If you can spend an hour talking to a woman,
and not seek her approval the entire time, you
stand a DRAMATICALLY better chance of taking
things to the next level with her.

That simple demonstration of showing her a full
hour of non-approval-seeking behavior and
communication will separate you from 99% of all
the guys that have approached her in her life.

And the best part about this particular
technique is that it’s NOT MANIPULATION. In fact,
seeking approval is far more manipulative than
what I’m saying here.

In fact, one of the reasons why women don’t
like a guy who seek approval, is because they
INSTANTLY sense that the guy is using a
MANIPULATIVE tactic.

If you think through the situations that you’ve
been in with women, you realize that this is the
case.

So stop seeking women’s approval when you meet
them.

Stop it!

Learn how to say things in a way that clearly
communicates that you don’t need her to like you
or approve of you.

Then learn how to be Cocky & Funny.

When you can make a woman laugh while you’re
NOT seeking her approval, you have a powerful
combination that sparks ATTRACTION.

Which leads me to the VERY BEST way of all to
“get past a woman’s defenses”.

MAKE HER FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU.

If a woman feels a powerful ATTRACTION for you,
then the kinds of defenses that we’re talking
about here don’t even come into play.

Attraction is such a powerful physical and
emotional response that it temporarily disables a
woman’s defense mechanisms…

It’s the one thing, if you know how to do it,
that women WISH you would trigger inside of them.

Once a woman starts to feel that magical
emotional and physical response called ATTRACTION,
the entire situation changes, and you start having
the kinds of success with women that most men only
dream about.

And most women go through life WISHING, HOPING,
AND DREAMING that they will someday find a man
that can make them feel this amazing feeling…

That man should be you.

And what’s the best way for you to learn how to
trigger this magical response that we’re talking
about here?

I thought you’d never ask…

The best way to learn is to invest in the
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Once you’ve finished with those programs, and
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Check out my Approaching Women program here:

Approaching Women

Check out my Body Language program here:

Body Language

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Deep Inner Game

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program on these web sites…

You’ll get a ton of great insights just by
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So do yourself the favor, and make the investment
in yourself.

Talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. You can see all of the rest of my different
CD and DVD training programs… plus watch great
video clips of each one… right here:

Double Your Dating Catalog

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>I get a lot of questions about how I learned
this stuff about women and dating. If you’d like
to read my story, just go here:

Double Your Dating Catalog

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave,

Your material is awesome. I have met more women in
4 weeks with your material than in the previous 4
years of dating! I have, however, come across a
problem which requires your expertise. I can
easily obtain a woman’s email and during the
follow up email get their number. However, I get
their voice mail often when I call them up. What
is your feeling about leaving a message with them?
I mean if you call several times (and they have
caller I.D.) and don’t leave a message they will
think you are some kind of weirdo. For example I
got this hot woman’s email but whenever I call her
(3 times in the past week) I get her answering
machine. Should I leave a cocky/funny message on
the third attempt or should I email her back or
just keep calling until I get in touch with her?
Thanks for your help,

D. in Alabama

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I’m going to answer your question in two
different ways… one is the direct answer, and
one is the “bigger picture” answer…

First, the bigger picture answer:

Most problems, like this one, boil down to a
rather simple formula:

NOT ENOUGH PROSPECTS = TOO MUCH CONCERN FOR ONE

TOO MUCH CONCERN FOR ONE = MIS-FOCUSING ENERGY

MIS-FOCUSING ENERGY = MISSING OTHER OPPORTUNITIES

Are you with me here?

If you were out getting more emails and numbers
every day instead of worrying about this one, you
would have called her the first time and said,
“Hey, it’s me. Call me, here’s my number…”

A few days later you would have probably
emailed and said, “Hey, you’d better call me,
because my week is filling up fast…”

Finally, you would have forgotten about her
because you got too busy seeing other women.

When you become too concerned with one woman,
you do things like CALLING HER THREE TIMES IN A
WEEK… without her calling you back.

What’s the message you’re sending to her?

Of course… “I tolerate and even pursue women
who don’t call me back.”

That’s not what you want to communicate, man.

By not leaving messages, you also add the
charming TWIST to the overall message of “I might
be a stalker, because I don’t leave messages.”

So, get out there and meet more women! That’s
the bottom line.

And now, the direct answer…

Call the first time and if you get voicemail
say, “Hey, it’s [your name here], call me. My
number is…”

If she doesn’t call you, then send her an email
that says: “What, trying to play hard to get
already? Call me.”

If she doesn’t call you, then YOU have to
decide what to do.

WHATEVER you do, don’t call or email her again
for awhile. Give it a week or two if she isn’t
responding to you.

Then, when you do contact her again, make sure
she gets the hint that you’re busy, that you’re
dating other women, and that you’re not impressed
with the fact that she’s a flake.

***QUESTION***

Dear Dave,

Love your material. I have gone ten years looking
for material on dating and your knowledge is
second to none. I have learned tremendously from
your ebook and emails. I do have a question
though. I had met a hottie the other night and
using C & F she was all over me, making out with
me in a bar. However when i got her back to my
place and we continued “making out” she kept
saying “I usually don’t do this” and “what are you
thinking (about us hooking up so quickly)?”
Needless to say I continued forward with my manly
duties, but I was wondering 1) why was she asking
these questions and 2) what is a good way to
respond to such questions in the future.

Your new follower,

A in Vermont

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Here, let me ask YOU something…

What would YOU do if you were a woman who:

1) Had a self image that didn’t include “hooking
up” with a guy the first night you meet him.

2) A STRONG sexual attraction to a guy that you
just met, and you want to hook up with him the
night you met him?

Of course…

You’d say things like, “I’m not this kind of
girl” and “I don’t usually do this” and “What do
you think about this?” etc. etc. etc….

You’ve asked me what I think of this, and how
to respond to it when it happens.

First, I think it’s normal and natural for a
woman to behave this way. Get used to it.

Secondly, as far as responding to this kind of
thing… I have a couple of thoughts for you.

1) Don’t Expect Anything

I think that guys get their hopes up when a
woman “comes home” with them… and they get more
and more excited about the possibility of “hooking
up”… to the point where they’re UPSET if it
DOESN’T happen.

When you put this much importance on something,
you set yourself up for failure… and often do
things to CAUSE failure. When you WANT something,
it costs more. Right?

So don’t EXPECT anything. Be OK with whatever
happens. Lean back. Chill. Be cool.

2) Make Sure She Knows

The next step is to let the woman you’re with
KNOW that whatever happens is cool.

Don’t PUSH.

When you start using all the different concepts
and techniques that you’ve learned together… and
you start to smoothly transition from one step to
the next… you will start to see women responding
VERY powerfully.

But, part of this powerful response will
USUALLY be some sort of “resistance”.

WHY?

Because women aren’t used to meeting men who
KNOW all this stuff!

They’re not used to being swept away by the
powerful sexual emotions that you’re triggering
with your communication, body language, and touch.

I’m not kidding here.

Don’t be surprised when some women get so
freaked out that they literally run out the door
or start shaking with nervousness.

Women just aren’t used to men who know how to
make them feel things this powerfully!

Now, if a woman says “I don’t know if this is a
good idea, I don’t usually do things like this
with a guy I’ve just met”… you basically have a
couple of choices.

You can PUSH, in which case you’ll usually meet
with resistance… or you can PULL BACK, then let
things start again slowly… which will make it
far more likely that things will continue to the
next level.

The real key here is walking into every
situation with a woman NOT EXPECTING anything…
or being overly concerned with the outcome.

Don’t worry about it. And expect this kind of
thing from women… it’s normal and natural.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave, I got your e-book a few months ago thinking
it would be a big joke. But I have spent $40 on a
bad date so figured I would take the gamble and I
am so glad!

Before I read your material I was the total wuss
boy, I was just way too nice and got no respect.
Now I have confidence! It didn’t take long to use
C&F, posture, etc, but what I noticed is that when
I SLOWED DOWN, women started looking. Walk slow
across the room, using deliberate movements,
shoulders back, head high, and you will just FEEL
more confident, and women pick up on that. Easy
to get emails and numbers when they feel your
confidence!

Thanks for the tips. I want to say that your “kiss
test” has worked 100% with my last 5 dates!
Playing with her hair and looking her in the eyes
while relaxing on the couch has gotten me lots of
kisses, then I BACK OFF for a few minutes and it
drives them crazy! I just keep thinking GO SLOW! I
am a good looking guy, but the problem I have had
with women is the “friend” category.

Now after 4 months I have a girlfriend that can’t
get enough, and I can’t thank you enough. I am
never going to be the wuss again! BTW- I did get
her flowers, I told her I made the arrangement
myself and the flowers were exotics as I made up
names and places they were each from, she just
laughed so hard it broke all Valentine tension and
I didn’t need a barf bag. CA

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Sweeeeeeet!

A quick thought…

It is AMAZING how powerful the idea of “backing
off” is after you’ve kissed a woman, etc.

Moving two steps forward, one step back is one
of the easiest and strongest way to amplify
attraction.

Good job.

***QUESTION***

Mr. DeAngleo,

I have your e-book Double Your Dating and it’s
just plain excellent. You have a keen insight into
the communication necessary to gain the respect
and admiration of da ladies. And you’re a quick
study of the human condition called “a
relationship”. I look forward to studying your
audio program.

Even though your stuff is great, it seems to skew
towards younger, never married girls. Am I right
that an older women who have been around the block
with kids, would be more worldly and have more of
a personal agenda? Or that these women are the
“new and improved gold diggers”? I’m in my late
forties and am realistic to the age bracket I’m
going to encounter and date. Sure I look great and
athletic, but the funny and cocky attitude would
seem to only work with young girls rather than
pre-married model.

Are guys my age stuck with working just the
personals and local church festivals? I mean no
matter how suave, cool, cocky, and funny I am,
aren’t I always fighting the age different thing?
That a man in his forties, has to use the power,
fame and money, rather than personality? Is the
cocky, funny personality going to work with older
women? We’re not all James Bond’s you know.

I look forward to your answers because you really
are the expert on this topic. And whether you’d
like to admit or not, you’ll be my age sometime
soon, and then what will you do? Man, that’s
something to think about!

Keep up the great work,

LP Wisconsin

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I’d like to give you some long, detailed,
profound answer to this question, but I just have
to say:

WOMEN OF ALL AGES LOVE THIS STUFF.

My stuff doesn’t skew towards ANY types of
women.

I flirt with every woman I meet… of every
age. They all love it.

And I get emails from guys of all ages who use
this stuff to meet women of all ages.

Try it… you’ll like it.

***QUESTION***

Dave,

All I can say is wow! Thanks a lot, the Dating
Tip; What To Do When She LIKES You, couldn’t have
came at a better time! It’s the first message I
read over, hell I even read it 3 times! And now
canceling something tonight so I can read over
your book and past letters, the information is
truly amazing, I was shocked at how well this book
was written. And you really helped me with
remembering how great the gift of missing you
works, would have f***ed that up 2nite!

Last night I went out with 3 beautiful women and
because my Escalade is at a friends (he is
installing a few screens for me, can’t wait!) I
invited a male friend to come along that the girls
have meet before to drive, When they entered the
car they said how much they missed me, the gift of
missing you is SO powerful I can’t explain it
enough. Then at the end they all said “thanks for
spending time with us”, I was thinking, aww I feel
so special! Said a c/f comment and got a few
hugs/kisses goodnight. And my friend didn’t even
get a “thank you”. He drove around and spent over
$100 paying for us to do stuff(total wuss, husband
material, he’s 18 so that’s not good)! I paid
nothing and received great benefits because of
you, where do I send the cash donations!?

I suggest you all look over the materials you
have, or purchase the e-book now if you have not
already. Look, your wasting lots of time, money,
and lots of great opportunity’s to get to know
wonderful women by not listening to this stuff. I
can’t even put together words on how well this
stuff works, Dave does a GREAT job teaching!

Question: This one girl with a 9.5-10 personality
and great looks has this sparkle in her eyes that
I really LOVE. How can I mention it in a non-
pussy way? Bust on her about it (making fun of
it)? But I like it! hmm

-JB, Chicago IL, where sheep are only in zoo’s!

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Sheep in zoos? Dude, what are you doing talking
about where the sheep in YOUR town are? It makes
me nervous when men know exactly where the local
sheep hang out is.

Now, to answer your question…

Why is it that men feel such STRONG urges to
compliment women early on? I don’t know what’s
with us.

I have to say, I know EXACTLY how you’re
feeling, because I have to watch this myself…
it’s like we come pre-wired with a “nice guy
compliment” mechanism.

Well TURN IT OFF for the first 10 dates or so,
OK?

Look at those beautiful eyes, and when she
says, “What? What are you looking at?” say, “Oh,
just my reflection in your eyes…”.

***QUESTION***

Hey David:

I have a question that I’m not sure you’ve
addressed in your book. Have you ever come across
a situation where you’re working on a girl and her
construction worker boyfriend shows up ready to
pound you one? Any idea on how to handle that
situation?

I’ve been there and lets just say that I’m damn
lucky my front teeth don’t look like some of the
hidden back ones! In fact, it’s instilled an added
fear into me that has made it really hard to
approach women for the last 13 years. Some guys
are crazy and if they see another guy making his
girlfriend all excited, it could be bad news.

M

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yeah, I have a great response for this…

Walk away.

What did you expect me to say? Beat him up?

I know that secretly a lot of guys have a fear
of the husband or boyfriend showing up and
becoming violent.

Does it happen?

Sure.

How often?

I don’t know… but, I can tell you that I’ve
never heard of it happening to a guy for just
talking to a girl… and I know a LOT of guys that
meet a LOT of women.

Just walk away.

Risk is a part of life, and you have to accept
it if you want to enjoy unusual levels of success.

***SUCCESS STORY***

David,

Many guys write in and tell you about their
success with this specific girl, or that specific
girl etc. Those are great stories and encouraging
to the rest of us. My success story is a little
different.

Today I was browsing my emails and something
happened that struck me. I have been
corresponding with this really attractive girl who
I met through the personals. In her first email
to me (a response to my initial contact) she asked
when/where we could meet. In her third, which I
read this morning, she gave me her phone number
and asked me to call her ‘really soon’. I will
call this evening.

I thought about this in context of my current
situation: last night I had a 3rd date with a
really cute Japanese girl who hardly speaks
english and who I met at a bar some time ago, the
night before I had a first date (tea @ Starbucks)
with an attractive tall blonde (who asked me,
before I brought it up, when we can meet again),
and the night before that I was at a girls place
making dinner for her, almost having a food-fight,
laughing and joking and poking fun of her family
pictures in her apartment (on our 3rd date). I
could go on but won’t.

The point I’m trying to make is that my success
story isn’t about any of the above successes. You
see, when I read the email this morning which had
a phone number and a request to call ‘really
soon’, my reaction was pretty casual. And it
struck me that my reaction would have been totally
different 1 year ago. I would have been so
surprised and happy and excited. And I would have
told myself ‘wow, this girl actually wants to
meet, ok now, don’t screw this up…blah blah etc
etc’

The success story I’m talking about is ME. My
reaction to the email sums it up; I’m not even
surprised when I get that kind of email any more.
Pleased, but not surprised.

I’m starting to REALLY understand the difference
between the INNER and OUTER game. It’s not
dissimilar to the difference between success with
a single woman, and my own success in ME and my
situation. Plug for Dave: I got the ebook about 1
year ago and I’ve been following the newsletters.
I’ve been slowly shedding the inner wussy and it’s
thanks to your teachings. I can only imagine what
kind of success I might have if I actually ponied
up for the CD series.

Question

I mentioned above that I am dating a really cute
Japanese girl. She speaks English, but not much
(certainly more than I speak Japanese!). I got
her email at a bar and we’ve been out 3 times. I
can sense that she likes me, and I think things
are proceeding well. In fact, she’s coming to my
appartment tomorrow to cook Japanese dinner for
me. My question is this: how can I tease her when
she doesn’t understand anything but the simplest
of English. I actually told her what ‘tease’ means
and then tried some examples to demonstrate. This
worked to some degree, but I’m feeling a little
held back.

Thanks for any insight you can offer.

S. in Vancouver

>>>MY COMMENTS:

About your “inner” success…

I can remember a moment a couple of years ago
when I realized that the inner insecurity that I
used to carry around with me was GONE.

It’s hard to explain an emotional feeling, but
it was as if there had previously been a certain
insecurity that was always with me… that
affected every part of my life…and then, without
me realizing it was going… it was gone.

It’s a great feeling, isn’t it?

As far as your situation with your Japanese
girl goes…

I have a friend who is great with women who
likes to date Japanese women, and he tells me that
they are different because of their culture… and
that they are often more reserved.

I’ve never thought of TEACHING a woman what
teasing means, but it’s a great idea!

I personally think that it’s difficult to
communicate in a subtle way when there is a
language barrier… but that’s just my take. If
you can figure this one out, write in and share
the wisdom!

***COMMENTS FROM A WOMAN***

Dave, - I ended up on your newsletter mailing list
just the same way I always ended up in boys P.E.,
I have one of those names that gets confused as
being male. At first, I found your letters just
funny and a bit odd… until I started seeing that
you are absolutely right. The qualities you
explore and recommend in your stuff is exactly
what I am attracted to. Wow, what an eye opener.
Wussies are a waste of time. Give me a C & F real
man anytime.

By the way, I find it very attractive in you too!
Kisses!

TM, Dallas,TX

>>>MY COMMENTS:

NOTE TO WOMEN FANS…

SEND PICTURES!

If you want to pucker, so I can get an idea of
what the “kisses” look like, feel free. Love it.

***COMMENT***

Hi Dave,

I’ve been enjoying your emails in the last few
months. You’ve offered some valuable advice on how
to deal with people. But, I am sorry to say I’m
finding your advice less valuable.

You are focusing on being cocky and funny with
people. But you are forgettign one thing. You have
to make sure you make people feel good. Otherwise,
they will be like - fu** you, I don’t to talk to
you - you are a piece of sh**. I’m just trying to
help you get on the right track, man. Nothing
personal.

Just read your last email. You are encouraging
someone’s comment who tells a complete stranger
that their dress is made of a shower curtain. Did
you ever stop to think that it does not make
someone feel good? I mean if someone directed a
rude comment like that to me - I’d be like fu**
you - you are a piece of sh** - I don’t want to
talk to you. Or, I would imagine a girl would
think something like - Why are you talking to me?
Go eat sh**. I don’t want to talk to you.

I would say something like - ‘Wow! That’s nice
shoes!’ (or Wow! That’s a nice hat!) Make a
compliment when you meet a stranger - that helps.
Instead of making them feel like a piece of sh**.
Take your fu**ing ‘cockiness’ in the whole new
direction MON! You are going in the wrong
direction. I want you to stop before you lose
everybody on your mail list MON!!!

You’ve gone a little overboard on that, mon. Come
on, admit it. I think you will probably make some
cocky and funny comment about that. But even then,
please do not go overboard with cocky because
there is a border line between cocky and rude. And
I take it, you who study human personality, should
know where that border line lies.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, MON…

Do me a quick favor. Go learn how to attract
women, then write me an email.

You sound like a “Couch Based Expert”. In other
words, I’ll bet you couldn’t get a woman’s phone
number if you were giving away CASH PRIZES… OK?

Now, to be fair, from time to time I do get an
email from someone who says “It sounds to me like
you’re suggesting to men that they act like
jerks”, etc.

What does this tell me?

The most IMPORTANT thing it tells me is that
you haven’t read my book or listened to my
Advanced Series… and you just don’t get it.

This isn’t about making women feel BAD, it’s
about making them feel GOOD.

You might not have noticed, but half of the
Cocky & Funny equation is FUNNY. If you’re funny,
then you don’t have to worry about what you say,
because it’s HUMOR.

I’m not sure that “Wow! That’s nice shoes!” is
the answer.

OK, MON, get up off your couch and go learn how
to meet some women. And stop being a whiner.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave,

You may not consider this a true success story
since it’s not about scoring with every good-
looking girl I meet. Rather it’s about the change
in my feeling about myself. In the past few months
I’ve gone from feeling absolutely crushed by
“rejection” or seizing up to recognizing that
there are so many attractive women out there, IT
DOESN’T MATTER if one of them shoots you down.
I’ve also reached the point where I can approach a
cute girl and get her e-mail/number. I admit
sometimes it’s not her real info, but this is a
work in progress. I’m on several online
dating/chatting sites, working my stuff. I’m even
using the arrogant humour routines on two of my
former love interests and am starting to see some
smoke rising as a result. I’m working the material
on the servers at the restaurants I frequent. And
on and on…

At first, I didn’t think it could take three years
to “get it down,” but last night I had my first
cup-of-tea-at- Starbucks date and now I understand
even more what you talk about on the CDs. It does
take time to become “totally congruent” with this.
But it’s going to be so much fun getting there!

So, in conclusion, I already consider myself to be
a success simply because I feel so much more
empowered as a man. Thank you.

CPAG Tucson, Arizona

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Actually, this is to me, the BEST kind of
Success Story there is. Getting a hot woman’s
number isn’t a big deal once you know how.

But, changing how you FEEL inside and how you
feel about YOURSELF is huge.

Great job.

If you want to learn more about how develop
yourself into that MAN that naturally attracts
women, then you should check this out:

On Being A Man

It’s the GOODS.

***QUESTION***

Hi Dave,

I got your book and subscribed to the emails about
a year ago. It’s great stuff. A lot of it is new
to me - but so much is obvious (with hindsight!!).
I am seeing my inner game change slowly but
surely, so that I feel less and less that I need a
woman and more and more that they are lucky to
have me. Looking back (I am 40) I reckon I have
been most successful with girls when I was most
relaxed and confident - they say success breeds
success!

Here are a couple of interesting experiences I
have had that confirm your approach -

I had a 19 yr old foreign student as a girlfriend
a while back. The first night back at my place I
offered to call a taxi for, her put her in the
spare bedroom or she could sleep with me.
Obviously she chose to sleep with me! I was just
trying to be a gentleman - but my theory now is
that by ‘pulling back’ I challenged her
expectations (that most guys would be desperate
for her to stay) and I forced her to take
responsibility for choosing what SHE wanted
(whereas most girls spend their time rejecting
what GUYS want).

My latest girlfriend is 29 and a total babe. But
she is a bit spoilt. She often gets sulky if she
feels she isn’t getting enough attention from me.
In the past I would have done whatever she asked.
Now I realise that is a game you can never win.
Instead I ask her if she treats her friends like
this - no - so why does she think it is ok with
me? She has actually said that she really respects
me for not letting her be a spoilt brat. Also
sometimes she threatens to find another boyfriend.
I always tell her that I can’t stop her if that’s
what she wants. Then she always says she doesn’t
want anyone else. It seems so obvious now - why
should a woman respect a man she can control??

I read your latest email about getting numbers.
The point about not hiding your intentions is so
true! Of course a woman knows what you want. If
you pretend otherwise you just seem weak (& also
you have made it really hard to bridge to getting
the number Doh!).

BUT - why do you say turn away & then turn back as
if it is an afterthought?? Isn’t this exactly the
pretence you said not to do? Why not just say
‘I’ve got to go now, but I’d like to talk to you
again. Have you got email?’ Isn’t that less
wussy? Or am I missing some subtlety here. (I
have tried the turning away thing, but without
success. I think maybe I am not a very good actor)

Thanks for the fantastic information, Dave,

N.

England.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

It’s fine to NOT turn away and just ask a woman
for her email address directly.

You’re making me reflect on how I developed my
“3 Minute Email And Number” technique…

In the beginning, I imagined that it was
basically impossible to walk up to a woman who was
a complete stranger and have her just give her
number to me.

So, I started learning different kinds of
tricks and techniques, from palmistry to
handwriting analysis… and all kinds of other
freaky and almost embarrassing ideas.

I basically figured that I would have to
somehow “distract” a woman from the fact that I
was “interested” and get her number without her
really understanding that I WAS interested.

The turning away, then turning back is
something that is kind of “left over” from those
days of being clever.

Turning away, then turning back basically
demonstrates to a woman that you’re OK with
walking away without getting her number… which
is a good exercise if you’re at the stage where
you get nervous asking for a woman’s number/email.

Feel free to just say, “Do you have email?” and
then, “Great, write it down… I want to talk to
you again” etc.

As long as you are cool and calm with all of
your other communication, you’ll be fine.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Saint Dave- I’ll skip all the ‘you’re so great’
stuff and get to the point. I’ve been learning and
practicing you’re techniques. And, as you know,
they’ve been working. But I’m not writing to tell
you about my successes- rather I’ve got a story I
find humorous.

Currently I’m going to college in California, but
I’m moving to NYC in May. Somehow my EX-girlfriend
(who lives in NYC) heard through the grapevine
that I was moving there. Out of the blue she calls
me- after 3 THREE YEARS and a very unpleasant
break-up. At first the conversation is strained
and awkward, but I’m using the all C&F stuff
unconsciously. As I do I feel her start to loosen
up to me, and she offers me a place to stay ‘for
one night’ when I get to New York. I hit her back
with ‘Well, I’m pretty busy. But if you wear a
sexy dress, cook me dinner and give me a massage,
maybe I could find time in my schedule.’ We go
back and forth like this for a minute or two and
then I end the whole conversation abruptly. Since
then she’s been calling and sending emails all the
time, virtually begging me to come and stay with
her ‘for as long as I like’. Now the point of this
story was that I was not even TRYING. I had no
intention of re-kindling the old flame, or even
hooking up for a one-nighter. But the C&F stuff
was so ingrained to my behavior, that even my ex-
girlfriend who hated my guts was falling for it.
Thanks man- you’re helping humanity.

PF

San Fran, CA

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yeah, well surprise surprise.

Here’s something that I’m hearing more and more
from guys who REALLY understand how to make women
feel ATTRACTION… and who have more dates then
they can handle:

“You know, it’s funny… the more I ignore and
don’t pursue women, the more they call me and
won’t leave me alone.”

Why is this?

Think about it.

Because when you don’t care, you DO all the
right things, and you SAY all the right things.

Be careful, it sounds like you might turn your
ex into your new stalker!

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave,

Your stuff helped me to consciously identify for
the first time what I had done right all these
years (approximately 18 years, counting
“courtship”) to get and keep an incredibly
beautiful wife (she’s in her low 40’s but gets
carded every time she orders a drink). But, more
importantly, you’ve shone a light on those few
bleak and sadly deficient skills that I’d let
slip, “’cause we’re married”. Let me tell you,
“My wife is much happier, now!” (I couldn’t
understand why she got so irritated when I didn’t
care where we ate. I really don’t care, but
she’ll never hear it from me again.) In fact, we
spent a Saturday afternoon and evening this
weekend that could make a lot of your single
guy/player types jealous!

One final thought that I suppose you could count
as another success: I’m ashamed to say, (from the
context of a married guy) a friend of my wife
appeared to have gotten a little too attracted
from her time hanging out with us. So, I turned it
ALL on … in REVERSE! You know, “I don’t want to
hurt my wife, but I love you. I know we shouldn’t
do anything, but I NEED you…” (You know, once
you stop, it’s kind of weird to act like a wussy
on purpose!) Anyway, it worked like a charm, you
could almost see the little cartoon cloud where
she had been standing! Well, that was more than I
intended, I just wanted to be counted if you start
tallying up the married guys that respond to your
Q&A. E. Fla.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You know, I love it when married guys like
yourself write in (which happens more and more
often) and tell me how this stuff is making their
relationships better.

Women never stop wanting a man to do the right
things… if only more men knew this.

And your thought about how to act like a Wuss
on PURPOSE to make a woman run away is great.

Isn’t THAT interesting?

***QUESTION***

dear Dave,

I have used both your email book and the cd
seminar with tremendous benefit. I have more than
doubled my dating! I always chuckle at the guys
out there who say you “make up these emails”,. I
have at least 10 friends who subscribe to the
newsletter and have written you, and you have
reproduced their emails verbatim. Now for my
question. I have, on several occasions, met women
and , as a segue to cocky and funny, told them I
am chippendale dancer when I responding to the
question of “what do you do for a living”. Now I
don’t look like a chippendale dancer, (actually
I’m a businessman) but these woman start believing
my story and I run with it all night and I am
cocky/funny to the max (for example, I’ll state
that I hate women coming onto me since I’m a
dancer, and that women only use me because I’m a
dancer). Now the question I have is how should I
respond when these women find out I am not a
dancer? I know in your cd seminar one of the
people you interviewed stated he would state
outrageous occupations such as a slave trader. How
far is too far? I can go the whole night with a
make-believe occupation and play along with a
woman. When do you break them the news that you
are not who you state you are, ie dancer?
Eventually you have to to be honest, right? Is
there a point that you have to be honest because
if you are not the woman may think you are a total
liar and not trustworthy. I mean I have played
this role of dancer so convincingly that they
actually believe my story and the attraction level
increases with C & F and they start attacking me,
but I am afraid of the ramifications of what will
happen when they find out that I am not a dancer.
Need some advice from the Mack Master,

Al in D.C.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

LOL… Dude, this is funny stuff.

So, let me get this straight… you tell women
that you’re a male stripper, and then they fall
for you… and you don’t know how to “let them
down easy”?

If a woman actually BELIEVES crazy things like
this, I like to turn it up a notch and say, “Well,
actually I used to be a male stripper, but now I’m
a porn star… are you OK with that?”

I don’t like it if a woman believes something
that isn’t true for too long… remember, you’re
just kidding.

And if a woman DOES believe something for too
long, and then gets a little upset, just say,
“What?! You weren’t actually dumb enough to
BELIEVE that I was a male STRIPPER, are you? I
don’t think this relationship is going to work. I
would NEVER be with a woman that would date a
STRIPPER…”

And by the way, thanks for mentioning that I
faithfully print the emails that I use in my
newsletters, because I do… they’re all real.

Thanks for your email.

***QUESTION***

David,

First off, i realize you hear this a lot but your
ebook istotally the mack- i’ve seen a big
difference in my interaction with women which i’ll
contribute much of my success to your book.

I’ve recently been giving some serious thought to
ordering your advanced materials. Here’s my
question: With the other 1 billion “buy our stuff
and your success with women will boom for three
easy payments of $19.99″ sites, how would you
compare your $195 advanced audio tape series to
[other dating products] which tout basically the
same types of things for about half the price?
Don’t get me wrong, i’m not saying your stuff
isn’t brilliant, and i realize that i’ve easily
spent $195 in dates/on women, i just wondered what
your take is.

Thanks a ton and keep up the great work!

-M.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, here’s the deal…

I’m about to say some things that are going to
make me sound a little too confident, so get
ready…

I spent YEARS trying to figure out how to be
successful with women and dating.

YEARS.

I read books, listened to tapes, went to
seminars… and tried all KINDS of things. I mean,
if you knew half of the stuff that I tried, you’d
laugh your ass off at me.

Most of it didn’t work… and the stuff that
did work actually worked IN SPITE of the fact that
it was lame.

I mean, if you do ANYTHING it will work SOME of
the time.

I’m going to tell you something that is both
simple and profound at the same time.

The thing that makes my Advanced Program
different from all the other stuff out there is
that it’s BASED on watching and learning from guys
who are “naturally” good with women.

The experience that REALLY took my success to a
high level was watching, learning from, imitating,
testing, and refining what I learned from these
guys.

In fact, I invited several of my friends who
were the MOST influential on me to participate in
the live seminar that was edited into the Advanced
Dating Techniques program, and when you listen to
it, you’ll watch and/or hear me interviewing five
of them LIVE.

I’ve worked hard to create a great set of tools
and techniques, and a logical way to learn them,
understand them, and start using them.

I will bet you that if you listen to or watch
the entire 12+ hours of this program at LEAST 5
times… there are so many killer ideas inside,
you will be thrilled.

You can watch some samples of the program and
get all the details here:

Advanced Series

And if you haven’t downloaded my online eBook
yet, then go do that NOW. You can download it in a
few minutes and be learning some of my best
techniques right from the comfort of your
computer. It’s here:

Double Your Dating eBook

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Make sure you check out all of the different
programs I’ve created to help you learn how to
meet and attract women more effectively. You can
see all of them, plus watch great video clips of
each right here:

Double Your Dating Catalog

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>NOTE: If you want to know the RIGHT way to
get women to notice you AND respond to you, you
need to know how to become the kind of man who
NATURALLY attracts women. To find out how, read
this:

On Being A Man

This Dating Tip is going to be short and
to the point.

There’s a HUGE mistake that I see guys making
ALL THE TIME when it comes to women and dating.

And it goes a little somethin’ like this…

GUYS OFTEN MAKE THE MISTAKE OF “SELLING” TOO
FAR IN ADVANCE INSTEAD OF JUST GETTING TO THE
NEXT STEP.

For example, let’s say that a guy is talking
to a woman at a coffee shop. Maybe she’s sitting
at the next table over and they strike up a
conversation about the weather.

Further, let’s say that the woman is unusually
attractive and the man is unusually AVERAGE in his
approach and method of communicating that he’s interetsted.

This guy might say something like:

“So, let me guess… you have a boyfriend, right?”

Or…

“OK, I have to tell you… I find you really
attractive and I’d like to take you out sometime.”

I’m sure you’ve seen this kind of thing a
thousand times in your life.

But what’s going on here? Is the guy actually
asking a casual question?

HELL NO.

The guy is literally communicating that he’d
like to PURSUE A RELATIONSHIP with the woman.

Yea, and even worse, he’s doing it within a
few minutes of meeting her!

Explained differently, the guy is trying to
sell the woman on a relationship in the future
based on five minutes of conversation.

And what happens? Of course…

The woman puts up the resistance INSTANTLY.

It’s all kinds of wrong in all kinds of ways.

It’s WUSSY behavior in its purest form.

It’s one of the biggest mistakes men make,
period.

And of course this is only the tip of the
iceberg.

Guys do this kind of “selling too far ahead”
stuff all the way along.

Guys ask things like:

“So, am I your type?”

…and…

“How do you like me so far?”

…and…

“What do you look for in an ideal partner?”

Ahhhhhhh!

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!

You can’t do this stuff! If you do you’ll
create an instant barrier to success!

So what’s the alternative?

I really thought you’d never ask.

The alternative is to know all the steps
from the first meeting all the way to the bedroom
(and beyond), and ONLY WORK ON GETTING TO THE
NEXT STEP in each situation.

If you’re talking to a girl, just get her
email.

If you’re talking on the phone, just arrange
a meeting for a cup of tea.

If you’re kissing, just go back to your place
to be alone.

Never again try to sell past the very next step.

THE HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENT

If you own a copy of my eBook “Double Your
Dating”, then open up the bonus booklet called
“Bridges: How To Go From One Step To The Next…
From The First Meeting To The Bedroom” and read
it again.

Get a clear picture in your mind of each of
the 10 steps that are listed in that booklet, and
get a clear mental image of how each step fits into
and flows into the next.

Notice how you might be doing things at
different steps that are trying to sell too far in
advance. For instance, you might realize that you
always get too deep into family and relationship
talk with women before you even kiss them.

Think about how you’re going to ONLY GET TO THE
VERY NEXT STEP in your particular situation… and
then plan exactly how you’re going to do it in the
future.

In the booklet you’ll get some great ideas for
how to transition from one step to the next, so use
them.

If you HAVEN’T YET downloaded your copy of my
eBook (and your free copy of my “Bridges” bonus
booklet), then you need to do that first. Go to:

Double Your Dating eBook

…to get it.

Read it, then go back and do the homework. This
ONE piece of the puzzle will make a BIG difference.

And if you already have my ebook and are ready
for a more in-depth, advanced education in how
to attract, approach, and date ANY woman you want,
take a look at the free clips from my “Advanced
Dating Techniques” program right here:

Advanced Series

Talk to you again soon!

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Take a few minutes and look at all of the
different programs I’ve created to help you
learn how to attract and meet women. You can
see them all, plus watch great video clips
right here:

Double Your Dating Catalog

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>NOTE: Getting an ex or a former lover “back”
requires many of the same attraction-building
skills as getting a NEW woman to feel attraction
for you. If you want to become an expert on this
topic, I recommend you check out my ebook
“Attraction Isn’t A Choice”. You can download it
and start reading it right now:

Attraction eBook

>>>QUESTION:

Dave,

Thank you for your book. I have purchased it and
have begun using it. Already paying dividends. I
have a question thatyou may have answered in a
previous newsletter but I somehow missed it. Is it
possible to “re-attract” someone who may have blown
you off as too easy or a wussy? How long should
you wait to see if you can somehow, cleverly get
this woman interested in you again? We don’t move in
the same circlesbut I have started to be around
where she is so I can “ignore” her or make a cocky
come back to her. Any suggestions or advice?

TW in Texas

>>>MY COMMENTS:

The reason why you don’t hear me talking about this
particular topic is because it’s a tough one.

The problem is usually that when a woman gets to
the point where she doesn’t want to be with a
particular man, there may be a lot of factors
involved.

1. She has made a mental decision that this isn’t
what she wants anymore.

2. She has a gut-level emotional feeling associated
with the man and the situation, and she just doesn’t
“feel it” anymore for the man.

3. There are usually patterns of communication,
thought, and feeling in these situations that act as
further nails in the proverbial coffin.

And to make matters even worse, most guys make the
huge mistake of doing EXACTLY THE WRONG THINGS when
a woman does leave… to the point where they make it
virtually impossible that she’s going to change her
mind.

All in all, it’s typically a lot easier to just get
on with your life and start dating other woman than
it is to try to get a woman back.

With that said, I’ll share some ideas that might
help you get to the next level, whether you decide
that getting her back is what that level is, I’ll
leave to you.

So what are the mistakes men make that seal the
deal and make it almost impossible to get a woman
back?

Here are a few:

1. Acting like a NEEDY WUSS. This is a big one.
Here’s the situation: Woman leaves, man feels strong
emotions of depression, strong physical cravings
for her, and creates strong psychological
rationalizations for trying to get her back. This
leads to calling, visiting, confessing love,
crying, and other similar behaviors.

Unfortunately, most guys don’t think for even a
SECOND about what the WOMAN is seeing. And in most
cases, the woman is already disgusted with the
situation. This kind of wuss display only makes
things 10 times worse.

2. Letting it destroy their lives. It sucks when
you lose someone you love. I believe that humans
naturally feel depressed and upset when they lose
someone they love…

But the problems start when you stop living, and
you let the emotions take over. Instead of staying
involved with life, some guys let depression and
feelings of sadness control them, and wind up
spiraling into even worse states of mind and body
than they were in when the breakup happened originally.

This, of course, can be pretty bad.

3. Pining away over the woman for weeks, months,
or even years after the fact. Too many guys (and
women) will just sit around hoping that their
relationship “fixes itself”. This creates all kinds
of negative emotional states, unrealistic
expectations, and strange vibes when you do
communicate with the ex.

So what’s the answer?

Well, in general, when a relationship comes to an
end, you need to GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE. Stay busy,
get things going.

Don’t allow negative emotions to create a permanent
beliefthat you’ll never feel better again.

The strange truth is that if you want to cause
someone who you’ve had a relationship with to feel
ATTRACTION again for you, you’re going to have to do
basically the same things that you’d do with someone
NEW that you meet.

I get emails every week from guys who have read
my book or been exposed to what I teach that write
in to say that they’ve been “practicing on their ex”
and that the ex is responding by flirting, calling
more often, and feeling more attraction for them.

And never forget the power of jealousy. If your ex
learns that you’re getting on with your life and
seeing other people, she’s FAR more likely to take a
renewed interest in you.

In other words, if you sit around and sulk you’re
not going to become more attractive.

If you call all the time and beg for forgiveness, or
talk about how much you miss her, or whine and cry,
this will probably only drive her further away from
you.

Just like when you meet an attractive woman who’s
used to getting a lot of attention from men… you
must GIVE HER THE SPACE TO MISS YOU. You need to get
on with your life, don’t call often, play “hard to
get”, tease her and have fun, and let her know that
you’re dating other people and moving forward to
enjoy your life.

THIS IS THE KIND OF THING THAT CREATES THAT MAGICAL
GUT-LEVEL ATTRACTION that I’m always talking about.

By the way, I honestly believe that women can tell
ALMOSTINSTANTLY if you’re the kind of man that she’s
going to feel ATTRACTION for.

How?

By the way you look at her, the way you hold yourself,
the way you speak to her, and kinds of things you say.

When you download my eBook “Double Your Dating”, one
of the THREE free bonus booklets that’s included is
called “The 8 Personality Types Of Men Who NATURALLY
Attract Women”.

This is a description of the traits I’ve found to be
common among men who ARE successful with women, and
men who AREN’T successful with women.

If you’ve downloaded the book, I recommend that you
re-read that booklet to refresh your mind with the concepts.

If you haven’t downloaded it yet, then go here:

Double Your Dating eBook

…now and get it.

Now, if you REALLY want to take your success with
women to the next level FAST, you need to ALSO get my
CD/DVD Advanced Dating Techniques program.

This takes the concepts you’re learning about in
these newsletters of mine, and goes MUCH deeper with
them. I spend several hours teaching the theories and
concepts BEHIND the techniques, so you can work to
change on MANY levels.

All the details, plus video samples, are here:

Advanced Series

And I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. I’ve written the story of how I learned to meet women,
and included a personal description of each of my different
programs… plus put some video clips of ALL of them right here:

Double Your Dating Catalog

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Hey Tee,

As you may have noticed there have been a TON
of new “gurus” popping up lately in the dating
advice world. I suspect that several of them are
virgins. But I also suspect that there are a
couple of them that would SMOKE ME when it comes
to meeting women.

I just had the pleasure of interviewing one of
these guys for my “Interviews With Dating Gurus”
monthly CD audio program, and let me tell you… I
was BLOWN AWAY.

What was supposed to be a 60-minute interview
ended up going on for 2 HOURS as my friend shared
one amazing technique after another. I’m
guessing he shared at least TWENTY FIVE brand new
word-for-word lines, techniques, routines, and
strategies for meeting and attracting women…
NONE of which I had ever heard before (and I’ve
heard a lot…)

Here are just a few of the secrets he shared:

-”Super-unneedy Phone Game” - The KILLER system my
friend uses to turn phone numbers into dates (It’s
very likely that this system will allow you to
turn the numbers you get into dates and second
meetings over 90% of the time)

-Exactly how long you should wait to call a woman
after you get her number… and exactly what to
say when you get her on the phone to get her
EXCITED about seeing you again

-The simple text message you should send to a
woman the morning after meeting her to keep things
HOT

-The powerful 8 word message to leave on a woman’s
voicemail that almost GUARANTEES she will call you
back IMMEDIATELY upon hearing it!

-The simple sentence you should say at the
beginning of every phone call that practically
guarantees it will go well

-How to keep your second meetings from turning
into “friend zone” material

-A trick that can get a woman to ask YOU out after
just a few phone conversations

-A rejection-free way to kiss a woman on the first
date, even if you are someplace “non-romantic”,
like a store or mall

-A brain-dead simple way to meet ALL of the hot
foreign girls in your city (This genius
step-by-step plan gets them to come to YOU!)

-A hilarious way to make fun of the “leader” of
a group of women that instantly gets you in with
her and the rest of the group at the same time

-A powerful way to instantly put yourself in the
BEST state of mind to meet women (Putting
yourself in this “zone” almost guarantees you will
only say and do things that create ATTRACTION)

-A secret that ensures you always come off as an
ATTRACTIVE guy when you are using humor and not
being a clown

-My friend’s single MOST POWERFUL routine (Pull
off just this one 60-second routine when you meet
a girl or group of girls in a bar and you will
have them HOOKED for the entire night… no matter
how many other guys hit on them and no matter what
kind of distractions come up)

-The one body language MUST that cuts your
chances of being rejected to almost ZERO

-The crucial “little things” that go into an
approach - My friend will take you through an
ideal approach step-by-step and word-for-word…
pointing out the important details that can cause
even guys who are great with women to strike out)

-How to run “routines” on 2 women at once (Key is
making sure her friend doesn’t pull her away)…
plus an amazing word-for-word routine to use when
you meet 2 women

-How to quickly initiate physical contact with a
woman without coming off as creepy or weird

Can you see why these are some of my favorite
new techniques?

I just couldn’t bring myself to edit out any
part of this incredible interview to make it fit
on one CD… so here’s what I’m going to do:

I’ve decided to make it DOUBLE BONUS MONTH and
send you out this entire interview on 2 CDs… so
you’l get to learn every single secret my amazing
friend has developed for meeting and attracting
women.

Oh, and by the way… my friend is also a
pioneer in the field of LIVE “pick up” videos, and
in this interview he’ll tell you how to go online
and watch them for free.

If you’re already subscribed to my “Interviews
With Dating Gurus” series, you’ll have this
interview soon… so just sit tight.

If you’re not subscribed then you really
need to subscribe RIGHT NOW to get this interview for
yourself.

It’s “going to press” THIS FRIDAY morning, so
you need to be signed up by this Thursday at
Midnight PST to get it.

By the way…

When you sign up, I’m also going to send you a
Starter Kit with 2 fantastic DOUBLE LENGTH
interviews to get you going (you’ll be getting 6
CDs total).

The price for the Starter Kit is ZERO. I’m
throwing it in as my way of saying thanks for
giving the program a shot.

And I’m even gonna go one step further…

If you get these interviews out there, and
you don’t ABSOLUTELY LOVE the information
contained inside, just let me know. You can keep
ALL OF THEM for free… just for giving me a fair
chance to earn you as a subscriber.

Of course, I wouldn’t make this offer if I had
any doubts that you weren’t going to be ESTATIC
over what you learn in this Series… and I want
to prove it to you.

Click the link below and sign up now. You’ll be
glad you did:

Double Your Dating Interview Series

And I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Remember, this interview is going to press
this Friday, so I MUST know if you’re “in” by THIS
THURSDAY at Midnight PST. Don’t delay… click
that link, and order now.

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Getting back into the game after some time
“away”… whether it’s because you’ve just gotten
out of a relationship or marriage… or because
you’ve had a “dry spell” in your dating life…
requires a good kick in the butt in the area of
SELF ESTEEM and SELF CONFIDENCE. If you need
some of these, then take a minute and read this:

Deep Inner Game

***QUESTION***

Hi,

I’ve read your newsletter for a few months now and
just recently got your book which is fantastic.
First off a little background here. I was married
for 11 years (I’m 33) and basically was either
dating or married to same person for 13 years. I
have been divorced now for a few months, and was
actually separated for over a year before I got
divorced. Having been out of the dating scene for
so long I was pretty much clueless (a lot has
changed). I’ve always been a very funny guy and
cocky to an extent, but in many ways what you
would consider a “wuss”. I’ve always considered
myself a nice guy, considerate, caring, etc. You
know, how mother taught you to be. I’ve realized
that those qualities are great of course, but
don’t help a lot in the dating scene. Once I
started more of the cocky routine, it’s been
amazing. Like I said, I’ve always been funny so I
guess I have a head start already.

Anyway, I’ve had some really “hot” dates in the
past couple months with the help of your book, but
one of the biggest problems I have in getting
dates is the fact I have been divorced and have 4
kids. I don’t consider this a problem whatsoever,
they’re a huge part of my life, but I know the way
women think sometimes and view this as “baggage”.
Is there any advice you could give me on how I can
incorporate some of your philosophies and
techniques into over coming this persona of
“baggage” and help me attract more women?

On a side note. This is a strange success story
here (if you can consider it that haha). Like I
said before I was married, and she is a really
beautiful woman. Just for the hell of it I
decided to start using the c&f routine on her
every chance I could (we still get along pretty
good as “friends”, btw). I thought it would be
good “practice”. Anyway, last weekend I was over
dropping off my kids, and she says “JC”. I said,
“what?”. I walk over to her bedroom (where she
was at) and she says out of the blue “get on the
bed now!” She was kidding and it threw me for a
loop, but I just said “in your dreams!” Shocked
she said, “WHAT?” I replied with, “maybe in our
next lifetime”. I then proceeded to end the
conversation and leave quickly after that (had a
date haha). Two nights ago she calls me at home,
and basically asked me out. I said what the hell!
So, we went out last night (kids were at her
sisters), and let’s just say that after 3 years of
not having sex with her, I forgot what I was
missing!! So there’s one for you, “how to get
your ex wife in bed with you again!!” LMAO In
case you’re wondering, no way no how, will I ever
go back to that relationship (but sex on the other
hand…hell yes!). There’s a different kind of
“success” story for you!

J.C.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

In your email you point out something very,
very, VERY interesting. You say:

“I’ve always considered myself a nice guy,
considerate, caring, etc. You know, how mother
taught you to be. I’ve realized that those
qualities are great of course, but don’t help a
lot in the dating scene.”

Well said.

It is SO important that guys understand the
distinction between “dating scene” and “long-term
relationship scene” when it comes to women and
interacting with them.

Many of the things that make a long-term
relationship great will KILL your chances
INSTANTLY with a woman that you don’t know. I’ll
talk about this more in a moment.

I think that as guys, most of us want to do the
right thing, treat others well, and live with
integrity.

There are of course exceptions to this rule,
but I think that most of us know at a very deep
level that treating others well, being honest,
having integrity, and living an authentic life
leads to happiness… while being dishonest,
treating others poorly, putting our integrity
aside for selfish reasons, etc. leads to that
constant, negative, dragging state of body and
mind.

The problem arises when we go out into the
world to find a mate. It matters not whether we’re
looking for a wife or a one-night stand…

As soon as we see a really attractive woman,
most of us guys become nervous, self conscious,
and insecure. We feel excitement and fear at the
same time. The first impulse is to approach and
give compliments in a way that says “You are a
beautiful goddess, and I am a mere mortal man…
Please, if you would, see your way clear to give
me a chance to show you how much I adore you.”

If the goddess indulges us for a moment, the
next impulse is usually to provide gifts and food,
and to show her what a great provider we are.

Of course, not every man experiences things in
exactly the same way, but you can probably
empathize with what I’m saying.

Here’s the deal:

I USED TO BE EXACTLY LIKE THIS. I know EXACTLY
what it’s like to want a woman’s attention but not
know how to get it… so I’d give compliments,
offer gifts and food, and try every other “nice”
trick in the book.

I did this for a long time. Many years, in
fact.

I used this strategy long enough to realize a
few key things:

1) Approaching women this way doesn’t usually
work. They immediately sense your insecurity, and
mentally classify you as “average” and “like the
other 10 guys that approached her today”, etc.

2) ATTRACTION is a completely illogical process.
ATTRACTION also isn’t a choice. ATTRACTION is a
response to certain things… and it happens on
it’s own.

3) Being a good guy is an important part of life.
Treating others well and always doing the right
thing leads to things like: A) Liking yourself, B)
Happiness, C) Good friendships, etc.

4) Being a “nice guy” when it comes to women and
dating, especially when it is used enough to make
you qualify as a WUSSY, is a REALLY REALLY BAD
idea.

5) There are certain techniques that can be
learned which will help you get past the initial
meeting and dating period… and help you not only
stand out as a “not average” guy, but also create
the magical emotion of ATTRACTION inside women.

6) The great news is that you don’t have to be
ultra handsome, rich, or famous to do it.

The gist of what I’m saying is that if you know
how to create this ATTRACTION inside of women,
then you can overcome just about any “social
stigma” that might be attached to you (yes, even 4
kids!).

Some people get upset when they read about my
techniques… they don’t like the idea of making
fun of a woman, busting her balls, being Cocky and
Funny, etc.

They just want to “be themselves” and have a
woman “like them for who they are”.

Most of the time, it’s because they don’t really
GET that the woman should be having FUN when you
do these things… and if you want to learn how
to bust on women and be Cocky & Funny WITHOUT
upsetting women, you should check this out:

Cocky Comedy

Where was I… Oh yes…

Of course, these same guys ALMOST ALWAYS like
to buy women flowers and dinner, give compliments,
accept manipulative behavior… and generally do
ALL KINDS OF THINGS that I consider “very
manipulative” and “not-at-all-being-yourself”
kinds of behavior.

Go figure.

The point is that when you made the comment
about the qualities that make up “nice guy” don’t
really help you out when it comes to women and
dating, you REALLY hit the nail on the head.

It’s not that you have to be an abusive-loser-
jerk, but you must realize that there are certain
qualities that aren’t what one might consider
“nice-guyish” that PUSH THE ATTRACTION BUTTONS
inside of women.

These are the things like being Cocky and
Funny, teasing women, busting on them, and
generally being a challenge.

If you decide that a woman you’ve met is “long
term” relationship material, then you can start
doing the things that you’d do with someone who
has earned your respect and trust. It’s at this
point that doing “nice guy” things makes more
sense.

BUT WATCH OUT! Don’t unexpectedly turn in to
Mr. Wussy just because a woman wants to have a
relationship with you. Nothing can make a woman
want to be “just friends” faster…

No matter what you do, you still must maintain
a balance.

So to answer your question about how to
overcome the objection to four kids…

First, realize that the women you’re meeting
fall into roughly a few categories:

1) Those that aren’t interested at all, no matter
what. Maybe they’re gay, happily married, not
interested… or all of the above.

2) Those that are interested in being with you for
some short term fun, but aren’t interested in a
relationship at all.

3) Those that are interested in short term fun
while they’re single, but would like to pursue a
relationship if they meet a good match. Here we
have two sub- categories: A) Those that object to
the four kids thing, and B) Those that don’t.

4) Those that are only interested in a long-term
relationship. We also have the sub-categories
here… Those that object to the kids, and those
that don’t.

My first question to YOU is: “Which type of
woman are YOU looking for?”

Sounds to me like you’re looking for a #3,
option B… a woman who’s interested in some
short-term fun, who would like to pursue a long-
term relationship if she meets a good match… and
is open to the kids. (If you’re only looking for a
woman who’s after short term fun, then the kids
don’t really matter. Just don’t bring them up.)

My perspective: Date some women, and BLOW THEIR
MINDS with the techniques you’ve learned. Use the
Cocky and Funny material… dial up the
ATTRACTION… if you get physical with them, make
it UNFORGETTABLE.

My experience is that if a person is REALLY
ATTRACTED to another person, they’ll put aside all
obstacles in order to be with the object of their
desires.

Yes, this means 4 kids and an ex.

If I were you, I’d project the attitude that
you’re not interested in any woman that can’t
adapt to the situation. Communicate that YOU’RE
the one doing the selecting, and it will cancel
out a woman’s objections before they even arise.
Think about it.

I personally know guys that have gotten past
“obstacles” that almost seem IMPOSSIBLE to
overcome…

Raise YOUR OWN standards, and you’ll find that
this has a magical effect on the way women treat
you.

If you’re reading this right now, and you’re in
a situation in life where you’d like to get back
on track and start having more success with women
and dating, then it’s time for you to take action.

Just sitting around HOPING that something will
happen or that you’ll “get lucky” isn’t going to
do it.

If you just WAIT for something to happen,
there’s a VERY LIKELY chance that you’ll either
wind up ALONE for a VERY long time… or you’ll
wind up with a woman that you don’t really enjoy
that much.

It’s up to you to actually take responsibility
for this area of your life… and to go get
yourself an education on how to be successful with
women and dating.

The best place to do it?

   My Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program.

It’s the ultimate insider’s system for learning
how to meet and date more women… and it will
teach you the secrets that it’s taken me YEARS to
learn and develop.

All the details, plus some great samples are
all here:

Advanced Series

If you’ve gone through my Advanced Series and
you need some serious “Inner Game Reprogramming”,
then I highly recommend that you get your hands on
a copy of my Deep Inner Game DVD program.

Inside this program you’ll learn how to
overcome the most limiting and self-destructive
habits and patterns of thought and behavior that
hold you back…

And you’ll learn how to use tools that will
help you improve your self image and self esteem,
overcome your fears of rejection and failure in
life… and how to use this knowledge to attract
more women… and KEEP them attracted.

Go watch some video clips of this program here:

Deep Inner Game

Oh, and if you haven’t downloaded my online
eBook, then you need to do that right now. You can
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minutes.

Just go to:

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…to download it now.

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. If you want to look through all of the
different programs I’ve created to help you learn
how to attract, approach, meet, and date the kinds
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Double Your Dating Catalog

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